Partnerships doesn't mean it is all about having a romantic partner or partner through marriage. Partnerships can be on your relationships with a family member, a friend, groups of people, colleagues, business partners, acquaintances and even to yourself.
When you reach that connection with them there must be a purpose & intention and when you have these it adds a deeper value to your partnership with them because even though they have differences with you they still respect you because you establish your purpose of your partnership with them, those boundaries and they are mindful of it. It also makes your connection with these people stronger.
Unlike those who are in partnerships for the sake of pleasure, things only get superficial. Some of them are not with you when you need them because they don't understand the purpose or either you or them, they have different expectations and what they prioritize.
When we meet these kinds of people who are just for pleasure, we have to widen our understanding on why they behave that way. It could be that they don't know how to deal with certain emotions or communicate that they simply just there for pleasure or simply don't want things very complicated. It doesn't make them a bad person unless if they are using you for sex or other degrading means.
We don't need to change them and chase for their company and what we can only do is go with the flow and act accordingly when dealing with them.
Aside letting them understand about what your purpose, value and boundaries to develop strong partnerships with people we have to be also mindful of what they want, need and the things they value, and we try to help them with asking for return and we are genuinely acting to the best of their interest. We only simply giving love and wishing them well and helping them to achieve the best.
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